Acting as a litigant in person: do I need a solicitor for my divorce?

Acting as a litigant in person: do I need a solicitor for my divorce?

Mediation: Why You May Want To Re-think Going To Court

In short, the answer is “no”, you do not need a solicitor for your divorce. It is perfectly possible to go through the divorce process without the aid of a solicitor.

For many, the decision to go ahead without a lawyer is motivated by money. While attempting to save money on legal costs can seem like a logical step, particularly if money is tight, it is important to be aware that it is not without its risks. Any short-term savings on legal bills may well be lost in the long run.

Making mistakes on the divorce petition now can have consequences later

Although the divorce petition can seem relatively straightforward at first glance, it can be helpful to seek legal advice before completing it. Otherwise, if you make any errors, these could potentially have consequences further down the line.

The divorce itself is only one element of the process

As we touched on above, the divorce itself is really only one part of the process.

If you have children, you may also need to consider child arrangements: issues such as who the children will live with and how often the other parent will see them will need to be determined and often this is less than straightforward.

In addition, there is the financial settlement. This is the part of the process which often takes the longest. Depending on the complexity of a couple’s finances, negotiations around how assets will be split upon divorce can take many months. If an agreement cannot be reached, and other out-of-court methods such as mediation do not work, it may then be necessary to go to court to ask a judge to decide. This can significantly prolong the process and increase the costs.

Getting the right legal advice as early on as possible in a divorce, can give you an idea of what a fair financial settlement could look like in your circumstances. This can inform negotiations and get them off to a good start. Conversely, without legal advice, both parties could begin financial negotiations with unrealistic expectations and it could take much longer to reach an agreement – or even result in the need to go to court.

Consider your options carefully

The choice between acting as a litigant in person and saving money, or instructing a solicitor and incurring significant costs, may not be as straightforward as it first appears.

A specialist family lawyer can provide you with legal advice relevant to your circumstances which can not only help you to ensure that you are fully aware of your rights, but can also provide you with the knowledge and information you need to try and resolve your divorce, child arrangements and the financial settlement, constructively and without animosity.

A solicitor can also advise you of all of the options available to you, which could help you to reach an agreement without commencing costly court proceedings.

Get in touch today to book your free consultation with one of our specialist family solicitors to discuss how Grayfords may be able to help with your divorce.

Neil Graham, a Partner at Grayfords, comments as follows:  “The availability of the Government online portal and the enactment of the Divorce, Dissolution and Separation Act 2020 introducing no-fault divorce means it is now much easier to navigate the divorce process itself without having to instruct a solicitor though it is often still advisable to do so if there are arguments around the costs of the process of if there is more than one country in which the divorce might take place.  Resolving the financial aspects alongside the divorce, or resolving any disputes affecting children, can be more difficult or complex and advice should generally be sought from a specialist family lawyer at the outset in order to avoid difficulties at a later stage. Although not appropriate in all cases, mediation can often be a cost-effective and consensual way of resolving disputes but advice should still be taken from a specialist family lawyer on any proposed solution.  We are always happy to help at Grayfords.  The resources below may also be of interest and assistance.”

https://www.nfm.org.uk/

https://nationalfamilymediationservice.co.uk/

https://www.familymediationcouncil.org.uk/

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At Grayfords, we understand the importance of developing effective strategies to achieve the desired outcomes for our clients in family law and private client law matters. That's why we prioritise regular catch-up strategies to ensure that your case is handled efficiently and aligned with your goals. 

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At Grayfords, we believe in the power of strategic partnerships to enhance the quality and efficiency of our legal services. We understand that legal matters often require expertise in various specialised areas, and that's why we have established strong relationships with trusted and renowned specialists in both family law, private client law, and therapy and mental health support.

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At Grayfords, we value the importance of offering a well-rounded legal service to our clients. Our strategic partnerships enable us to tap into a wealth of expertise and resources, ultimately enhancing the quality and effectiveness of our services. You can trust that we have the necessary connections to consult with specialists whenever needed, ensuring that every aspect of your case is addressed with proficiency and efficiency while also supporting you on a personal level as needed.

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At Grayfords, we understand the value of time, and we prioritise our clients by ensuring that they receive the attention and support they need throughout their legal journey. Unlike other family law and firms, we never claim to be too busy for our clients. We believe that effective communication is essential, and our team is always accessible and responsive to your needs.

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In the realm of family law, we understand the emotional challenges that can arise during sensitive family disputes. Our team of experienced family law solicitors provides compassionate support and guidance throughout the process. Whether you are going through a divorce, child custody battle, or dealing with complex property division, we have the expertise to navigate these intricate matters while prioritising your best interests. 

In the field of private client law, we recognise the complexities and demands that business owners and HNWIs face in today's dynamic marketplace. Our private client law services encompass a wide range of areas including wealth planning, asset management, trusts, wills, probate, and lasting powers of attorney. We aim to be your trusted legal partner, offering strategic advice and solutions that align with your commercial objectives as you navigate your family matter. 

At Grayfords, we believe in fostering long-term exceptional working relationships with our clients. Our dedicated team goes above and beyond to understand your unique circumstances and provide tailored legal solutions that anticipate your individual needs. We pride ourselves on delivering an outstanding personal service level, ensuring that you feel supported and informed throughout your legal journey.  

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