SPOTLIGHT: Nicole Kidman

SPOTLIGHT: Nicole Kidman

Who runs the world? – Independent strong women that’s who!

Celebrities such as Nicole Kidman are proving that when a divorce takes place there is no stopping a woman: even though at first it may prove to be upsetting, women are knuckling down, focussing on their careers and new relationships and making an even bigger success of their lives than they first imagined.

Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise’s 2001 divorce was a shock to us all. They were the power couple, the ideal Hollywood couple. Nicole has now remarried but now she is name-checked in her own right. She has gone on to be one of the most recognisable megastars, won an Oscar and is thought to be worth a whopping £150 million. She emerged from Tom Cruise’s shadow and her own career started to blossom. One of Kidman’s most famous movie roles is Moulin Rouge. During production, director Baz Luhrmann could not stop complimenting Nicole Kidman and her new surge of personality. He stated she was turning the heads of many men, just like her character Satine on the trapeze, and she emerged as her own person.
Nicole Kidman stated that her divorce from Tom Cruise was the best thing that ever happened for her career. This meant that she could focus all her energy and attention on her job. This is the case for many women: time spent on a failing marriage can be better put to use on family and career.
Upon divorce, women tend to reaffirm their priorities and commit to changing their lifestyle. With increased financial independence comes greater financial responsibility and this can be a driving force for career development, whether it’s putting their all into an existing career or a change of course resulting in a new career or business venture.

Clearly, Nicole Kidman didn’t have to worry too much about making ends meet following divorce, but she has said that she channelled her emotions into new, more challenging roles, ultimately resulting in Oscar-winning success. Many woman find that divorce gives them a greater emotional strength and they discover new skills and gain in confidence as their independence grows. A divorce can be a nasty shock to the system but it can also be the wake-up call a woman needs to truly reach her potential.
Just as Nicole Kidman had used divorce as an opportunity to grow as a person, many other women are doing the same. They grab life with both hands and devote their time and energy to discovering who they are as a person and what they want in the future. They then become stable in their lives, self-assured and capable of find happiness in their careers and future on their own terms.

Megan, a solicitor at Grayfords says:

When our clients approach us, no matter what their legal issue, a change is invariably at the root of the problem – either a change they want to make or a change they want to stop from happening. It’s often said that divorce is one of the most stressful changes a person can undergo (along with moving house and the death of a loved one). Grayfords strongly believes that a stressful change needn’t ultimately leave you worse off. After the initial stress, we see our clients change and grow into their new lives. As lawyers, we aren’t counsellors, but we do aim to be your biggest champions throughout the transition period and provide unwavering support to get you through and on track to start a new life beyond divorce.

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Regular Catch-up Strategies


At Grayfords, we understand the importance of developing effective strategies to achieve the desired outcomes for our clients in family law and private client law matters. That's why we prioritise regular catch-up strategies to ensure that your case is handled efficiently and aligned with your goals. 

As experienced family and private client lawyers, and strategy experts, we recognise that every case is unique and requires a tailored approach. Through regular catch-up sessions, we engage in open and collaborative discussions with our clients to gain a thorough understanding of their objectives, concerns, and preferences. These ‘catch-ups’ allow us to assess the progress of your case, identify any evolving needs or challenges, and adjust our strategies accordingly. We are also then able to put in place any personal support our clients may need should they wish to avail themselves of our coaching and therapy & mental health services at any point during their legal matter.

By maintaining regular communication, we can provide you with updates on the status of your case, share important information, and address any questions or concerns you may have. This proactive approach ensures that you are actively involved in the decision-making process and empowers you to make informed choices throughout the legal proceedings. 

Our aim is to ensure that your case is being handled in the most efficient and effective way possible. Through our regular catch-up strategies, we can evaluate the success of our current strategies, make necessary adjustments, and optimise our approach to maximise the chances of achieving a favourable outcome for you. 

At Grayfords, we value your input and understand that your goals are essential to the success of your case. Our commitment to regular catch-up strategies reflects our dedication to providing personalised and client-centered legal services. By working together, we can create a strong partnership and develop strategies that align with your vision and aspirations. 

Strategic Partnerships​


At Grayfords, we believe in the power of strategic partnerships to enhance the quality and efficiency of our legal services. We understand that legal matters often require expertise in various specialised areas, and that's why we have established strong relationships with trusted and renowned specialists in both family law, private client law, and therapy and mental health support.

Our strategic partnerships enable us to provide a streamlined and comprehensive legal service to our clients. When your case requires consultation or assistance in specific areas of the law, we have the resources and connections to quickly and efficiently engage the right experts. 

Whether it's a complex family law issue or a multifaceted private client law matter, our network of trusted specialists allows us to draw upon their knowledge and experience to provide the best possible advice and representation for our clients. These partnerships ensure that we can offer comprehensive solutions that address all aspects of your case, providing you with a holistic approach to your legal (and personal) needs. 

By collaborating with specialists in various legal fields, we can navigate intricate legal challenges more effectively, saving you time, effort, and potential complications. Our commitment to strategic partnerships means that we stay informed about the latest developments in family law and private client law, ensuring that our advice and strategies are up-to-date and relevant. 

At Grayfords, we value the importance of offering a well-rounded legal service to our clients. Our strategic partnerships enable us to tap into a wealth of expertise and resources, ultimately enhancing the quality and effectiveness of our services. You can trust that we have the necessary connections to consult with specialists whenever needed, ensuring that every aspect of your case is addressed with proficiency and efficiency while also supporting you on a personal level as needed.

Time for you


At Grayfords, we understand the value of time, and we prioritise our clients by ensuring that they receive the attention and support they need throughout their legal journey. Unlike other family law and firms, we never claim to be too busy for our clients. We believe that effective communication is essential, and our team is always accessible and responsive to your needs.

Whether you have a question, or concern, or need an update on your case, our dedicated team of family law and private client law experts will be readily available to assist you. We go the extra mile to ensure that you can reach us conveniently and promptly. You can count on us to answer your calls or reply to your messages on platforms like WhatsApp, enabling efficient and effective communication.

Our commitment to internal collaboration and dynamism ensures that there is always someone available to address your family law or private client law case. We understand that legal matters can be time-sensitive, and we strive to provide timely and accurate advice. You can rely on our team's collective knowledge and expertise to guide you through the complexities of family law and private client law.

At Grayfords, we recognise that your time is valuable, and we respect that by being responsive, accessible, and dedicated to your case. We prioritise open and transparent communication, keeping you informed and involved every step of the way. You can trust that we will dedicate the necessary time and attention to your legal matters, ensuring that you feel supported and well taken care of.

Specialised Service


At Grayfords, we offer a specialised range of services across both family law and private client law, tailored to meet the unique needs of our clients. With a focus on honesty, empathy, and pragmatism, we provide reliable legal advice that is designed to help our clients achieve success in their legal matters. 

In the realm of family law, we understand the emotional challenges that can arise during sensitive family disputes. Our team of experienced family law solicitors provides compassionate support and guidance throughout the process. Whether you are going through a divorce, child custody battle, or dealing with complex property division, we have the expertise to navigate these intricate matters while prioritising your best interests. 

In the field of private client law, we recognise the complexities and demands that business owners and HNWIs face in today's dynamic marketplace. Our private client law services encompass a wide range of areas including wealth planning, asset management, trusts, wills, probate, and lasting powers of attorney. We aim to be your trusted legal partner, offering strategic advice and solutions that align with your commercial objectives as you navigate your family matter. 

At Grayfords, we believe in fostering long-term exceptional working relationships with our clients. Our dedicated team goes above and beyond to understand your unique circumstances and provide tailored legal solutions that anticipate your individual needs. We pride ourselves on delivering an outstanding personal service level, ensuring that you feel supported and informed throughout your legal journey.  

Our ultimate goal is to alleviate the pressure and stress often associated with legal matters. We are committed to guiding you through the complexities of family law and private client law, allowing you to focus on what matters most to you. Trust Grayfords to provide you with the specialised legal services you deserve, backed by our expertise, integrity, and dedication to your success.