What are the alternatives to divorce?

What are the alternatives to divorce?

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If you’re having marital problems and want to do something about it but you’re not sure if divorce is right for you do not fear: there are a number of legal alternatives. This article gives a quick summary of divorce and the alternatives to give you an idea what’s out there. If you want to know how each one applies to your own specific situation and could help you more forward in your life then give us a call on 02071006100 and make an appointment to speak with an expert solicitor for some advice tailored to your personal situation.

Divorce

Divorce is very common in this day and age with over 100,000 taking place each year in England and Wales. Most people will have direct experience of it themselves or through a friend or loved one.
A divorce is the legal process which ends a marriage. It is largely an administrative exercise and the need to actually attend court is very rare. After the final decree, called Decree Absolute, is pronounced by the Court the couple are no longer married.
A divorce can only be applied for once the couple have been married for one year. Either one of the couple can apply for a range of financial orders to ensure they are provided for after the marriage has ended. A solicitor will be able to advise you on what orders you could apply for and what kind of financial settlement you would be likely to receive.

Dissolution

If you are in a civil partnership then the equivalent to a divorce is a dissolution. A family law solicitor will be able to advise on to how go about dissolution proceedings.

Post-nuptial agreement

Most people are aware of pre-nuptial agreement (or ‘pre-nups’) but few are aware of a post-nuptial agreement. They’re not just for the rich and famous. In fact, they’re even more important for the normal man on the street. If you have fewer assets it becomes even more important to protect them. And that’s where post-nuptial agreements come in.
If you are having marital problems, or think you might experience them in the future, or just want to make sure you are provided for in the event of a split, a solicitor can draft a post-nuptial agreement on your behalf to give effect to your wishes relating to finances or children.

A post-nuptial agreement is not a precursor to divorce and many of our clients have agreements which they re-draft again and again throughout their lives because feeling financially secure should the worst happen makes them for comfortable in their relationship.

Separation Agreement

A separation agreement is for couples who are separating on a long or short-term basis. It sets out the obligations they have towards one another but does not end the marriage. It gives a high degree of flexibility in that virtually anything can be included in the agreement. If the couple wish to resume their relationship at a later date the agreement simply falls by the wayside after an agreed period, e.g. six weeks’ cohabitation. Or if they decide to divorce the agreement can be used as the basis for a financial order.

Judicial Separation

Judicial Separation is very similar to divorce except in one key aspect: it DOES NOT end the marriage. The parties receive a decree of judicial separation from the Court and can apply for financial support from one another as if they were divorcing but legally the marriage continues.

Judicial Separation is particularly appropriate for those who cannot divorce for religious reasons.

Annulment

Annulment is available at any time after a marriage has taken place. Unlike divorce there is no requirement to wait for a year to pass before taking action. Annulment is available in a very specific set of circumstances so you should consult a solicitor if you think they may apply to you. Click here to find out more information: Grayfords | Annulments

If you are considering divorce or any of the options above and want to know more, please telephone us on 02071006100 or use the form on our Contact page to get in touch. An expert solicitor will be able to advise you on your options and what your rights are in relation to finances, property and children.

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Regular Catch-up Strategies


At Grayfords, we understand the importance of developing effective strategies to achieve the desired outcomes for our clients in family law and private client law matters. That's why we prioritise regular catch-up strategies to ensure that your case is handled efficiently and aligned with your goals. 

As experienced family and private client lawyers, and strategy experts, we recognise that every case is unique and requires a tailored approach. Through regular catch-up sessions, we engage in open and collaborative discussions with our clients to gain a thorough understanding of their objectives, concerns, and preferences. These ‘catch-ups’ allow us to assess the progress of your case, identify any evolving needs or challenges, and adjust our strategies accordingly. We are also then able to put in place any personal support our clients may need should they wish to avail themselves of our coaching and therapy & mental health services at any point during their legal matter.

By maintaining regular communication, we can provide you with updates on the status of your case, share important information, and address any questions or concerns you may have. This proactive approach ensures that you are actively involved in the decision-making process and empowers you to make informed choices throughout the legal proceedings. 

Our aim is to ensure that your case is being handled in the most efficient and effective way possible. Through our regular catch-up strategies, we can evaluate the success of our current strategies, make necessary adjustments, and optimise our approach to maximise the chances of achieving a favourable outcome for you. 

At Grayfords, we value your input and understand that your goals are essential to the success of your case. Our commitment to regular catch-up strategies reflects our dedication to providing personalised and client-centered legal services. By working together, we can create a strong partnership and develop strategies that align with your vision and aspirations. 

Strategic Partnerships​


At Grayfords, we believe in the power of strategic partnerships to enhance the quality and efficiency of our legal services. We understand that legal matters often require expertise in various specialised areas, and that's why we have established strong relationships with trusted and renowned specialists in both family law, private client law, and therapy and mental health support.

Our strategic partnerships enable us to provide a streamlined and comprehensive legal service to our clients. When your case requires consultation or assistance in specific areas of the law, we have the resources and connections to quickly and efficiently engage the right experts. 

Whether it's a complex family law issue or a multifaceted private client law matter, our network of trusted specialists allows us to draw upon their knowledge and experience to provide the best possible advice and representation for our clients. These partnerships ensure that we can offer comprehensive solutions that address all aspects of your case, providing you with a holistic approach to your legal (and personal) needs. 

By collaborating with specialists in various legal fields, we can navigate intricate legal challenges more effectively, saving you time, effort, and potential complications. Our commitment to strategic partnerships means that we stay informed about the latest developments in family law and private client law, ensuring that our advice and strategies are up-to-date and relevant. 

At Grayfords, we value the importance of offering a well-rounded legal service to our clients. Our strategic partnerships enable us to tap into a wealth of expertise and resources, ultimately enhancing the quality and effectiveness of our services. You can trust that we have the necessary connections to consult with specialists whenever needed, ensuring that every aspect of your case is addressed with proficiency and efficiency while also supporting you on a personal level as needed.

Time for you


At Grayfords, we understand the value of time, and we prioritise our clients by ensuring that they receive the attention and support they need throughout their legal journey. Unlike other family law and firms, we never claim to be too busy for our clients. We believe that effective communication is essential, and our team is always accessible and responsive to your needs.

Whether you have a question, or concern, or need an update on your case, our dedicated team of family law and private client law experts will be readily available to assist you. We go the extra mile to ensure that you can reach us conveniently and promptly. You can count on us to answer your calls or reply to your messages on platforms like WhatsApp, enabling efficient and effective communication.

Our commitment to internal collaboration and dynamism ensures that there is always someone available to address your family law or private client law case. We understand that legal matters can be time-sensitive, and we strive to provide timely and accurate advice. You can rely on our team's collective knowledge and expertise to guide you through the complexities of family law and private client law.

At Grayfords, we recognise that your time is valuable, and we respect that by being responsive, accessible, and dedicated to your case. We prioritise open and transparent communication, keeping you informed and involved every step of the way. You can trust that we will dedicate the necessary time and attention to your legal matters, ensuring that you feel supported and well taken care of.

Specialised Service


At Grayfords, we offer a specialised range of services across both family law and private client law, tailored to meet the unique needs of our clients. With a focus on honesty, empathy, and pragmatism, we provide reliable legal advice that is designed to help our clients achieve success in their legal matters. 

In the realm of family law, we understand the emotional challenges that can arise during sensitive family disputes. Our team of experienced family law solicitors provides compassionate support and guidance throughout the process. Whether you are going through a divorce, child custody battle, or dealing with complex property division, we have the expertise to navigate these intricate matters while prioritising your best interests. 

In the field of private client law, we recognise the complexities and demands that business owners and HNWIs face in today's dynamic marketplace. Our private client law services encompass a wide range of areas including wealth planning, asset management, trusts, wills, probate, and lasting powers of attorney. We aim to be your trusted legal partner, offering strategic advice and solutions that align with your commercial objectives as you navigate your family matter. 

At Grayfords, we believe in fostering long-term exceptional working relationships with our clients. Our dedicated team goes above and beyond to understand your unique circumstances and provide tailored legal solutions that anticipate your individual needs. We pride ourselves on delivering an outstanding personal service level, ensuring that you feel supported and informed throughout your legal journey.  

Our ultimate goal is to alleviate the pressure and stress often associated with legal matters. We are committed to guiding you through the complexities of family law and private client law, allowing you to focus on what matters most to you. Trust Grayfords to provide you with the specialised legal services you deserve, backed by our expertise, integrity, and dedication to your success.