What You Should Ask a Divorce Solicitor Before Hiring Them

What You Should Ask a Divorce Solicitor Before Hiring Them

Divorce is arguably one of the most challenging and complex undertakings that one can face within a family context, both from an emotional and practical standpoint. Further, navigating the legal intricacies that come hand in hand with finalising the details of a separation, such as child custody and financial arrangements, requires a keen understanding of the appropriate jurisdiction and legislation involved.

Because of this, it is always advisable to consult a solicitor before filing for divorce so that they can help to direct your strategy by providing continued assistance to you throughout the often-lengthy procedure. Selecting the right solicitor for you and your case is therefore of the utmost importance as you will likely be working very closely with them for quite some time and their skills and level of competence will directly impact the outcome of your case.

Below is a list of some questions that we recommend you always ask your prospective solicitor to help you make an informed choice.

What areas of law do you specialise in?

The discipline of law is incredibly varied and so making sure that your solicitor has trained specifically to be a family lawyer is ultimately the first point of call. This will have furnished them with an in depth understanding of the current legislation and case law that is applicable to divorces and what strategies are available to use in such cases. You can then ask them for further details about what sub-categories of family law they may specialise or have experience in to assess whether they would be best placed to advise on the specifics of your matter.

What is your assessment of my case and do you think I will be successful?

Once you have confirmed that your prospective solicitor is definitely qualified to take on your matter, you can then outline the details of your case so they are aware of specifics. This will help them to already begin formulating a strategy in their minds while accounting for any problem areas that particularly stand out to them from your description.
Conclude your overview with some simple questions about whether your desired outcome in pursuing legal action is achievable, how likely this is, and what obstacles may pose the biggest threat to that aim. This is an opportunity for you to understand whether pursuing your original intended course of action is advisable and also to gauge how confident your solicitor is in quickly formulating some initial steps and plans to achieve this.

How many divorce cases have you handled?

Sometimes lawyers may have only just recently become qualified solicitors and so it can be beneficial to enquire about how much practical experience they have in handling matters like yours. For more complex divorces with children and considerable assets involved, it is advisable to seek out a seasoned solicitor who has a reputable history of successfully representing many clients going through similar divorces. Bear in mind however that the overall reputation of the solicitor’s firm which they form part of is equally important here.

Do you believe that it’s better to negotiate than to go to court?common law marriage

Another factor to consider is that litigation is a costly business and the fees associated with going to court are particularly high. Further, the more court hearings a case induces, the longer it will likely take to resolve and so more chargeable time from the solicitor will be spent working on the client’s case. A good solicitor will therefore always try to negotiate a settlement on behalf of their client in the most efficient, cost-effective way and will try to avoid escalating any conflict to the point of going to court if possible. Understanding whether your prospective solicitor subscribes to this philosophy or conversely to the aim of inflaming litigation should always form part of your vetting process.

What are your fees and will you or another solicitor from the firm be handling my case?

Every solicitor has their own hourly rate which they charge their clients whenever they spend any time working on their case. Generally, the more experienced a solicitor is, the higher their hourly rate will be in order to account for their greater expertise.
As such, it is important to understand who exactly will be the acting solicitor on your case and what their hourly rate is to get an idea of the costs you will be incurring. However, solicitors’ firms are also made up of several other legal professionals, such as trainees, paralegals, and legal secretaries, who will have their own hourly rate (this is considerably lower for the latter two listed) and may also from time to time assist on your case. A good solicitor will always look to work in a cost-effective way for their client and so they will generally delegate more basic administrative tasks to other less senior members of the team to keep total charges to a minimum.

Note: Finding out if your prospective solicitor will be issuing you detailed itemised bills for the work their firm carries out on your case is a good way to gauge this.

How much will the divorce cost?

Finally, you should always ask for an estimate of what the total cost of getting divorced with your prospective solicitor’s representation will come to. A good solicitor will take into account how much difficulty or ease is likely to be encountered when resolving your case (this will directly impact costs as more contentious cases tend to last longer) and if there will be any additional charges that are likely to be incurred such as court fees, council fees, and barristers’ fees for example. How transparent they are in detailing these costs to you will help you to assess their level of integrity and will also clarify whether they and their firm are suitable for your budget.

At Grayfords, we pride ourselves in having an ethos that prioritises our clients’ success and well-being above all. Our solicitors always act to best meet our clients’ needs, aiming to engage in as much or a little litigation as they prefer relative to the requirements of their case. We also offer a unique fee structure wherein clients are represented by a blended team of solicitors of varying experience levels, allowing for the greatest level of expertise at the most affordable price point. We also provide  our clients with clearly itemised bills for greater transparency so they can rest assured that we act with integrity when managing their cases. If you are considering filing for a divorce or need assistance with any other family matter then don’t hesitate to book your free consultation today to find more about how we can help.

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Regular Catch-up Strategies


At Grayfords, we understand the importance of developing effective strategies to achieve the desired outcomes for our clients in family law and private client law matters. That's why we prioritise regular catch-up strategies to ensure that your case is handled efficiently and aligned with your goals. 

As experienced family and private client lawyers, and strategy experts, we recognise that every case is unique and requires a tailored approach. Through regular catch-up sessions, we engage in open and collaborative discussions with our clients to gain a thorough understanding of their objectives, concerns, and preferences. These ‘catch-ups’ allow us to assess the progress of your case, identify any evolving needs or challenges, and adjust our strategies accordingly. We are also then able to put in place any personal support our clients may need should they wish to avail themselves of our coaching and therapy & mental health services at any point during their legal matter.

By maintaining regular communication, we can provide you with updates on the status of your case, share important information, and address any questions or concerns you may have. This proactive approach ensures that you are actively involved in the decision-making process and empowers you to make informed choices throughout the legal proceedings. 

Our aim is to ensure that your case is being handled in the most efficient and effective way possible. Through our regular catch-up strategies, we can evaluate the success of our current strategies, make necessary adjustments, and optimise our approach to maximise the chances of achieving a favourable outcome for you. 

At Grayfords, we value your input and understand that your goals are essential to the success of your case. Our commitment to regular catch-up strategies reflects our dedication to providing personalised and client-centered legal services. By working together, we can create a strong partnership and develop strategies that align with your vision and aspirations. 

Strategic Partnerships​


At Grayfords, we believe in the power of strategic partnerships to enhance the quality and efficiency of our legal services. We understand that legal matters often require expertise in various specialised areas, and that's why we have established strong relationships with trusted and renowned specialists in both family law, private client law, and therapy and mental health support.

Our strategic partnerships enable us to provide a streamlined and comprehensive legal service to our clients. When your case requires consultation or assistance in specific areas of the law, we have the resources and connections to quickly and efficiently engage the right experts. 

Whether it's a complex family law issue or a multifaceted private client law matter, our network of trusted specialists allows us to draw upon their knowledge and experience to provide the best possible advice and representation for our clients. These partnerships ensure that we can offer comprehensive solutions that address all aspects of your case, providing you with a holistic approach to your legal (and personal) needs. 

By collaborating with specialists in various legal fields, we can navigate intricate legal challenges more effectively, saving you time, effort, and potential complications. Our commitment to strategic partnerships means that we stay informed about the latest developments in family law and private client law, ensuring that our advice and strategies are up-to-date and relevant. 

At Grayfords, we value the importance of offering a well-rounded legal service to our clients. Our strategic partnerships enable us to tap into a wealth of expertise and resources, ultimately enhancing the quality and effectiveness of our services. You can trust that we have the necessary connections to consult with specialists whenever needed, ensuring that every aspect of your case is addressed with proficiency and efficiency while also supporting you on a personal level as needed.

Time for you


At Grayfords, we understand the value of time, and we prioritise our clients by ensuring that they receive the attention and support they need throughout their legal journey. Unlike other family law and firms, we never claim to be too busy for our clients. We believe that effective communication is essential, and our team is always accessible and responsive to your needs.

Whether you have a question, or concern, or need an update on your case, our dedicated team of family law and private client law experts will be readily available to assist you. We go the extra mile to ensure that you can reach us conveniently and promptly. You can count on us to answer your calls or reply to your messages on platforms like WhatsApp, enabling efficient and effective communication.

Our commitment to internal collaboration and dynamism ensures that there is always someone available to address your family law or private client law case. We understand that legal matters can be time-sensitive, and we strive to provide timely and accurate advice. You can rely on our team's collective knowledge and expertise to guide you through the complexities of family law and private client law.

At Grayfords, we recognise that your time is valuable, and we respect that by being responsive, accessible, and dedicated to your case. We prioritise open and transparent communication, keeping you informed and involved every step of the way. You can trust that we will dedicate the necessary time and attention to your legal matters, ensuring that you feel supported and well taken care of.

Specialised Service


At Grayfords, we offer a specialised range of services across both family law and private client law, tailored to meet the unique needs of our clients. With a focus on honesty, empathy, and pragmatism, we provide reliable legal advice that is designed to help our clients achieve success in their legal matters. 

In the realm of family law, we understand the emotional challenges that can arise during sensitive family disputes. Our team of experienced family law solicitors provides compassionate support and guidance throughout the process. Whether you are going through a divorce, child custody battle, or dealing with complex property division, we have the expertise to navigate these intricate matters while prioritising your best interests. 

In the field of private client law, we recognise the complexities and demands that business owners and HNWIs face in today's dynamic marketplace. Our private client law services encompass a wide range of areas including wealth planning, asset management, trusts, wills, probate, and lasting powers of attorney. We aim to be your trusted legal partner, offering strategic advice and solutions that align with your commercial objectives as you navigate your family matter. 

At Grayfords, we believe in fostering long-term exceptional working relationships with our clients. Our dedicated team goes above and beyond to understand your unique circumstances and provide tailored legal solutions that anticipate your individual needs. We pride ourselves on delivering an outstanding personal service level, ensuring that you feel supported and informed throughout your legal journey.  

Our ultimate goal is to alleviate the pressure and stress often associated with legal matters. We are committed to guiding you through the complexities of family law and private client law, allowing you to focus on what matters most to you. Trust Grayfords to provide you with the specialised legal services you deserve, backed by our expertise, integrity, and dedication to your success.