Why you should avoid DIY Divorces?

Why you should avoid DIY Divorces?

The Number Of Divorces Likely To Surpass The Number Of Weddings

When a marriage breaks down, divorce is often the next logical step. In an attempt to save time or money – or both – some people opt for the DIY divorce. Is a DIY divorce really the stress-free option or will it end up costing you more – both financially and emotionally – in the long run? We take a closer look…

What is a DIY divorce?

A do-it-yourself divorce is when a separated couple decides to legally end their marriage with no (or very little) help from a solicitor.

Some people choose to undertake the divorce process themselves in order to save money.

In fact, it is perfectly possible to file for divorce yourself by filling in a divorce petition (a D8 form) and paying the obligatory £550 in court fees. There is no requirement to have a solicitor do this for you or to obtain any legal advice at all. However, anyone opting for this method should understand that it does not come without its risks.

Why should I avoid DIY divorce?

The divorce process itself is actually mainly paperwork. As long as both of you agree to the divorce and the reason for the divorce, you can complete all of the paperwork yourselves. However, be aware that if you make any mistakes on the divorce petition, this could cause unnecessary delays to the divorce process.

Many couples encounter problems when it comes to agreeing how to split their finances. The financial process is actually completely separate to the divorce process itself, although it often runs concurrently with it. Without legal advice from a solicitor experienced in this area of law, negotiations could stall, again causing delays to the divorce process (the decree absolute – the legal end of a marriage – is usually not applied for until the financial settlement has been agreed).

Moreover, many people make the mistake of believing that if they have little or no finances, they do not need to deal with this element of a divorce. However, ignoring the financial side of divorce could be dangerous, in that it could leave you open to claims for money from your ex-spouse in the future.

We would always recommend that anyone going through a divorce – or about to begin the divorce process – book at least one appointment with a solicitor, in order to ensure they fully understand their rights and receive advice to ensure that the financial side of things is dealt with. Get in touch to book your free consultation with one of our experienced family lawyers today.

Neil Scott Graham, a Partner at Grayfords, comments as follows: “The benefit of avoiding litigation where possible, and minimising legal costs and the involvement of solicitors in trying to reach an agreement cannot be overstated. Not all cases, however, can be resolved without litigation especially where the assets are complex or difficult to value or where the parties’ positions are too far apart to resolve.  Even where it is possible to resolve the proceedings by agreement an Order will usually need to be drafted both to ensure that the agreement is fully enforceable and also to ensure that neither party can make further claims against the other in the future or on the death of the other. Furthermore, the agreement still has to be approved by a Judge before it can be enshrined within a Court Order. The introduction of the on line divorce portal has made it easier to commence the divorce process itself although technical difficulties can still arise under the current legislation when applying for the Decree Nisi. The most important thing to remember is that even if the parties are able to reach an agreement through mediation or between themselves it is important to obtain formal advice on whether the agreement is fair and likely to be approved by the Court and on the terms of any Order required to give effect to it in order to avoid problems in the future.”     

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Regular Catch-up Strategies


At Grayfords, we understand the importance of developing effective strategies to achieve the desired outcomes for our clients in family law and private client law matters. That's why we prioritise regular catch-up strategies to ensure that your case is handled efficiently and aligned with your goals. 

As experienced family and private client lawyers, and strategy experts, we recognise that every case is unique and requires a tailored approach. Through regular catch-up sessions, we engage in open and collaborative discussions with our clients to gain a thorough understanding of their objectives, concerns, and preferences. These ‘catch-ups’ allow us to assess the progress of your case, identify any evolving needs or challenges, and adjust our strategies accordingly. We are also then able to put in place any personal support our clients may need should they wish to avail themselves of our coaching and therapy & mental health services at any point during their legal matter.

By maintaining regular communication, we can provide you with updates on the status of your case, share important information, and address any questions or concerns you may have. This proactive approach ensures that you are actively involved in the decision-making process and empowers you to make informed choices throughout the legal proceedings. 

Our aim is to ensure that your case is being handled in the most efficient and effective way possible. Through our regular catch-up strategies, we can evaluate the success of our current strategies, make necessary adjustments, and optimise our approach to maximise the chances of achieving a favourable outcome for you. 

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At Grayfords, we believe in the power of strategic partnerships to enhance the quality and efficiency of our legal services. We understand that legal matters often require expertise in various specialised areas, and that's why we have established strong relationships with trusted and renowned specialists in both family law, private client law, and therapy and mental health support.

Our strategic partnerships enable us to provide a streamlined and comprehensive legal service to our clients. When your case requires consultation or assistance in specific areas of the law, we have the resources and connections to quickly and efficiently engage the right experts. 

Whether it's a complex family law issue or a multifaceted private client law matter, our network of trusted specialists allows us to draw upon their knowledge and experience to provide the best possible advice and representation for our clients. These partnerships ensure that we can offer comprehensive solutions that address all aspects of your case, providing you with a holistic approach to your legal (and personal) needs. 

By collaborating with specialists in various legal fields, we can navigate intricate legal challenges more effectively, saving you time, effort, and potential complications. Our commitment to strategic partnerships means that we stay informed about the latest developments in family law and private client law, ensuring that our advice and strategies are up-to-date and relevant. 

At Grayfords, we value the importance of offering a well-rounded legal service to our clients. Our strategic partnerships enable us to tap into a wealth of expertise and resources, ultimately enhancing the quality and effectiveness of our services. You can trust that we have the necessary connections to consult with specialists whenever needed, ensuring that every aspect of your case is addressed with proficiency and efficiency while also supporting you on a personal level as needed.

Time for you


At Grayfords, we understand the value of time, and we prioritise our clients by ensuring that they receive the attention and support they need throughout their legal journey. Unlike other family law and firms, we never claim to be too busy for our clients. We believe that effective communication is essential, and our team is always accessible and responsive to your needs.

Whether you have a question, or concern, or need an update on your case, our dedicated team of family law and private client law experts will be readily available to assist you. We go the extra mile to ensure that you can reach us conveniently and promptly. You can count on us to answer your calls or reply to your messages on platforms like WhatsApp, enabling efficient and effective communication.

Our commitment to internal collaboration and dynamism ensures that there is always someone available to address your family law or private client law case. We understand that legal matters can be time-sensitive, and we strive to provide timely and accurate advice. You can rely on our team's collective knowledge and expertise to guide you through the complexities of family law and private client law.

At Grayfords, we recognise that your time is valuable, and we respect that by being responsive, accessible, and dedicated to your case. We prioritise open and transparent communication, keeping you informed and involved every step of the way. You can trust that we will dedicate the necessary time and attention to your legal matters, ensuring that you feel supported and well taken care of.

Specialised Service


At Grayfords, we offer a specialised range of services across both family law and private client law, tailored to meet the unique needs of our clients. With a focus on honesty, empathy, and pragmatism, we provide reliable legal advice that is designed to help our clients achieve success in their legal matters. 

In the realm of family law, we understand the emotional challenges that can arise during sensitive family disputes. Our team of experienced family law solicitors provides compassionate support and guidance throughout the process. Whether you are going through a divorce, child custody battle, or dealing with complex property division, we have the expertise to navigate these intricate matters while prioritising your best interests. 

In the field of private client law, we recognise the complexities and demands that business owners and HNWIs face in today's dynamic marketplace. Our private client law services encompass a wide range of areas including wealth planning, asset management, trusts, wills, probate, and lasting powers of attorney. We aim to be your trusted legal partner, offering strategic advice and solutions that align with your commercial objectives as you navigate your family matter. 

At Grayfords, we believe in fostering long-term exceptional working relationships with our clients. Our dedicated team goes above and beyond to understand your unique circumstances and provide tailored legal solutions that anticipate your individual needs. We pride ourselves on delivering an outstanding personal service level, ensuring that you feel supported and informed throughout your legal journey.  

Our ultimate goal is to alleviate the pressure and stress often associated with legal matters. We are committed to guiding you through the complexities of family law and private client law, allowing you to focus on what matters most to you. Trust Grayfords to provide you with the specialised legal services you deserve, backed by our expertise, integrity, and dedication to your success.